Almost all one of us has been through a terrible seperation at some period in our lives. Most of us can remember that terrible feeling and every emotion that engulfs you after you seperate with the one you sincerely loved and believed you could always be with. Different break-ups, happen for different reasons and no two break ups will be exactly the same. This may be due to one individual feeling insecure, somebody being unfaithful to the other, one person or both losing interest in the other and so on. Similarly it could also be because of social constraints. Whatever the reason might be, it’s a bad feeling and moving on could be highly challenging. If however, you broke up from your ex guy for a reason that is not so big, and you still feel strongly for him, you could always attempt to bring your ex guy back.
To get your ex guy back, you will need to find out if he still feels the same way regarding you too. There isn’t a point in only you wanting to bring back together. The foremost thing you have to do therefore, to bring your ex guy back, is to call him up and talk to him. It is best if you do not sound too helpless as that may put him off. Be positive and bear a hard restraint of your feelings when you attempt to get your ex guy back.
It is always prudent to leave yourselves some time separated to be able to think rationally before you try to bring your ex guy back. You would need to look at whether it’s worthwhile giving it another try. There is no sense simply attempting just because you love him, if there are conflicts which can never be sorted out. To bring your ex guy back, you must then have a heart to heart conversation with him and ask him if he too wants to go ahead with it.
If he replies no at first, do not be disheartened. Maybe he just needs some time to think about it. Do not pressure him to make a decision but don’t wait for too long either, as you take the danger of ending up broken again.
Even after you win in bringing him back, you would need to keep working on yourrelationship. Plan dates often and spend more time with him. Better communication to prevent misinterpretations. Discuss whatever troubles that may develop, straightaway.